Don't Hate Emulate!
gonna hate. A common misconception is that a Hater is usually some stranger who
is jealous of your accomplishments. On the contrary, the majority of Haters are
those closest to you... a coworker, a friend, a sibling, a parent, a spouse, or
even your own child. The goal of the Hater is to throw you off your game by
putting doubt in your head or even putting obstacles in your way. They project their own
fears, insecurities, and limitations onto you. Their
worst fears are being left behind and loosing you. But, sometimes it's just
plain ENVY - wishing they had something
How do you keep the Haters
My number one rule is to keep my deepest
hearts desires and dreams, which I know were put in me by God, mostly to
myself. I am very blessed to have two sisters that I trust enough to share my
true self with... but it wasn't always that way. It took all three of us to hit
adulthood before were able to develop a true friendship. Keeping things to yourself minimizes the negative
voices from the peanut gallery.
How do you know who to
trust with what?
You can quickly learn who to trust by putting just a little bit out there
and see how folks react. The Haters will make themselves known very quickly!
Watch their body language. Watch out for backhanded comments. Watch for a
change in attitude. Listen to that little voice within... it never steers you
As a wise old queen once said... what other people think of me is none of my business!